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Online Dating

Cyber dating whether we like it or not has become a norm and is here to stay. Gone are the days when most people put their noses up to condemn those brave enough to give themselves a chance. Those who find love online have been despicably called or considered desperate. I on the other hand consider them smart.  Why smart some...


Personally, I'd rather fix a marriage than break it. If it's salvageable why throw it away? If both parties are willing to work at it. it will work. Marriages fail when both parties or one party stops trying. finally after all has been said and done, after all interventions have been tried and exhausted. The couple still decide to...


Apology is a big tool in the survival of any and every relationship. Not being able to apologise is a huge turn off for most and it has gone on to break many a happy union. The words may be small but the effects are huge therefore it doesn't hurt to use it as often as it is required because it has the cooling effect of staving away war no...

Benchmarks set at the start of a relationship set the...

admin | Dec 4 '16 | Tags: relationship
Even before going on a date every lady and indeed man should have reasonable standards and expectations. These standards form a benchmark of lines that can’t be crossed, values that must be held unto and believes that can’t be compromised. In so saying these standards must be communicated expressly and impliedly to any potential date. Having...

Before The Plunge

admin | Nov 27 '16 | Tags: dating, african dating
Choose wisely Unlike a lot of unwise decisions we’ve made in life, marriage is one decision that needs to be made rather deliberately. If you date and marry the wrong person you will live a significantly negative life with lasting consequences stemming from that one unwise decision you made.  Some of those who crossed all their...

Questions to Ask on a First Date

admin | Nov 27 '16 | Tags: first date, dating
So you’re ready to settle down but not currently dating and have recently been hooked up to a cute man/lady. Arrangements for a first date have been made and you have butterflies in your tummy while planning or imagining how it will all pan out. Note, this is not a romantic date and the environment and time of outing should depict this fact....


admin | Nov 27 '16 | Rate: 5 | Comments: 1 | Tags: dating
Do you know your dreams consist of all you’ve ever heard, seen or thought of? Do you even know that every face or anything you see in your dream is a face or thing you’ve consciously or unconsciously encountered before?  …in short, everything you dream about once transpired. The moment I realised the above truth I knew my...

Introducing MutualHearts Blog

admin | Nov 27 '16 | Tags: dating, african dating, relationship
Welcome to MutualHearts first official blog post and thank you for stopping by, we appreciate your time and hope you find us interesting enough to keep coming back for more thought provoking reads and discussions centred mainly round mature dating. We promise to keep our blog postings as short and straight to the point as possible. A bit about...

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